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Dec. 25, 2025

The Elephant Memory: Why You Must Set Family Boundaries *Now* Before the Holidays.

The human mind is fundamentally designed for high retention; it remembers everything to ensure survival. This neurological fact means past family conflicts are never truly forgotten, they are simply stored. Attempting to finally speak your unfiltered truth during the high-pressure environment of a holiday gathering is rarely productive. Instead, wisdom…

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Dec. 24, 2025

The words we use for holidays often miss the mark when someone is deeply grieving. This observation

The standard holiday salutations—Happy Thanksgiving, Merry Christmas—are built on joy, making them unintentional landmines for those navigating profound loss. A recent observation highlights how these automatic phrases become instant triggers when someone is struggling. The presenter shares the genuine difficulty in finding an appropriate alternative, noting that even tentative substitutes…

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Dec. 23, 2025

Sixty Years of Love, Now Just Echoes in Your Neurons. Prepare for a perspective shift on grief.

Witness the raw, staggering reality of the brain's response to profound loss. Consider the millions of neural pathways firing relentlessly, expecting a familiar presence after decades of shared life, especially during a time like the holidays. This exploration delves into how the limbic system, operating purely on memory, struggles to…

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Dec. 22, 2025

The Holiday Tears Are Real: Why Your Body Reacts When You Try to Hold It In.

Discover the surprising reason behind those unexpected waves of emotion that surface during festive seasons. It turns out, trying to shelf deep-seated memories or unresolved pain doesn't work; instead, the body unleashes them unexpectedly. Science suggests that up to half of us experience this heightened sensitivity around the holidays, often…

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Dec. 21, 2025

Green Rain vs. Staying In The Lines: Which Upbringing Created YOU?

This compelling look at contrasting childhoods shows how early lessons etch themselves into our adult realities. Observe the difference between a parent encouraging purple clouds and green rain, fostering a light-hearted, boundary-free approach to the world, and the parent strictly enforcing staying within the lines, leading that child toward the…

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Dec. 20, 2025

Thanksgiving blues hitting different? 💔 How one parent turned unthinkable pain into a quest for gra

A raw reflection on a holiday overshadowed by unimaginable pain—a Thanksgiving spent with a child in juvenile hall. The gut-wrenching question arises: how can thankfulness possibly exist here? Discover the powerful, counter-intuitive path where healing begins not by ignoring the trauma, but by bravely embracing it. This piece explores the…

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Dec. 19, 2025

Instant Calm: The Secret Trick for Throat Tension & Anxiety! 🤯

Witness the incredible anatomy at play when tension strikes. A simple act like taking a deliberate swallow sends a direct, physical message via the vagus nerve, shifting the body from high alert to deep rest by engaging the parasympathetic system. Discover the far-reaching network of this crucial nerve, connecting the…

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Dec. 19, 2025

Holiday Grief & the Brain: Why Christmas Hurts + Tips to Heal | Brain Lady Podcast Episode 28

🎄 Struggling with grief this holiday season? You're not alone. In Episode 28 of the Brain Lady Podcast, neurotherapist Karen D. Wood (in her festive "ugly Christmas sweater"!) and guest Phil unpack the brain's response to loss during Christmas. From the shock of the first holiday without a loved one…

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Dec. 12, 2025

How Trauma Resets Your Brain's Danger Detector

Discover the surprising truth about how past experiences can reprogram the brain's alarm system. An insightful look at how the mind mistakes minor daily stresses for a life-threatening event—the 'little rattlesnake' analogy is powerful. Learn about the fascinating biological pathway that needs retraining, involving the hippocampus and the connection between…

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Dec. 11, 2025

STOP the Chemical Fight! The Secret to Instant Acceptance Revealed.

The sheer speed at which the human mind processes visual information is staggering—up to sixty thousand times faster than written or spoken words. Advertisers exploit this fundamental design principle daily. A deep dive explores the concept of "acceptance," reframing it not as agreement or approval, but as a neutral acknowledgment…

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Dec. 8, 2025

The Neurology of Thanksgiving – When Triggers Override Gratitude (And How to Win the Brain Battle)

Feeling the holiday squeeze? You're not alone—65% of people with depression histories report Thanksgiving worsening their symptoms, while 40% battle spiked anxiety from family expectations and old wounds. In this mind-expanding episode of the Brain Lady Podcast, neurotherapist Karen D. Wood (your favorite brainiac) teams up with producer PhillVill to…

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Dec. 2, 2025

Soccer Parents Advice

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Nov. 30, 2025

Truth Vanishes in Arguments? Here’s Why

Heated emotions = truth blackout. Host + co-shot reveal how feelings hijack facts & how to reclaim clarity. 🧠⚡ 👉 Full ep in bio! #ConflictTruth #EmotionalFog

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Nov. 28, 2025

“You Need to Calm Down” = BAD Idea? Here’s Why

Telling someone mid-meltdown to chill? Host + co-shot reveal why it backfires—and what to say instead. 🗣️💥 👉 Full ep in bio! #EmotionTips #BetterWords

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Nov. 27, 2025

God Wants Your Boring Day? (Romans Revealed)

Coffee runs, traffic, to-do lists—God craves it ALL. Host + co-shot on Romans & inviting Him into the insignificant. ☕🙌 👉 Full ep in bio! #DailyWithGod #RomansTruth

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Nov. 24, 2025

Fruit of the Spirit: God’s Strength GREATER Ours

Love, joy, peace… they’re not from us. Host + co-shot on why God’s power fuels the Fruit—and why we can’t do it alone. 🍇💪 👉 Full ep in bio! #ChristianLiving #HolySpirit

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Nov. 23, 2025

Heal Through Habits? Control Responses = Better Behavior

Master your reaction → reshape your habits. Host + co-shot unpack how small responses build lasting emotional strength. 🧠💪 👉 Full ep in bio! #EmotionalHabits #SelfControl

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Nov. 22, 2025

Spec Scan for the Brain

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Nov. 20, 2025

Kids Ask 3 Times? Here’s What They REALLY Mean

Repeated questions = secret puzzle. Host reveals what kids are actually figuring out. 🧠👶 👉 Full ep in bio! #ParentingTips #KidLogic

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Nov. 17, 2025

Best Friends and Twins first Time Separate in Distance

Best Friends and Twins first Time Separate in Distance

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Nov. 16, 2025

Notice Your Tension Even During Road Rage

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Nov. 14, 2025

😵 The "F" Emotions on the Spectrum?

Fight? Fright? Flight? Freeze? FINE? Brothers + therapist unpack them raw. 🧩💥 #AutismEmotions #BigFeelings #Neurodivergent

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Nov. 12, 2025

Brothers on Spectrum: Why Emotions Explode 💥 (Therapist Explains)

Two autistic brothers + therapist unpack HUGE reactions others don’t expect. Real talk on big feelings & how to understand them. 🧠✨ 👉 Watch full ep in bio! #AutismAwareness #BigEmotions #Neurodivergent

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Nov. 11, 2025

Siblings Conflict and Strengthening Communication Skills

Ever feel like your sibling is your biggest rival... and your best teacher? #Siblings #CommunicationTips #FamilyLife #PersonalGrowth #SiblingRivalry

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